Episode 231: Purity Culture

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On Episode 231 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Tesi and Leslie talk about purity culture and its impact on girls and women in America in 2019. Horrified by the stories of Jeffrey Epstein, incited by a culture of victim blaming and shaming, and concerned about the cultural waters we currently swim in, the two women talk about their own experiences as well as the experience of raising daughters in 2019. How can we do better by our daughters AND our sons? How can we disagree with grace without shaming one another? How do we do better as a culture to love better and respect more? The sister-hosts discuss these questions and more in this Mama Bear Mini.

LINKS: Questioning Faith After Purity Culture | Linda Kay Klein Review | Book: Pure: Inside the Movement that Shamed a Generation of Young Women and How I Broke Free | Art Exhibition

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Episode 223: To Throw A Party & Change the World with Kelly Welk

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On Episode 223 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie sits down with Kelly Welk, hostess extraordinaire and anti-sex trafficking advocate. Years ago, Kelly looked around and saw extra — extra food in her refrigerator, extra space in her home, extra seats at her table — and felt compelled to find ways to share her plenitude. She started by throwing a dinner party for friends to raise money for Rescue Freedom International and has since raised tens of thousands of dollars for trafficked girls, started a business, and engaged her community in big and beautiful ways. The women talk about how to act on your big and bold dreams, how to channel what you love into making a difference in what you care most about, and how to find the courage and wisdom to engage the Mama Bear to share your abundance.

Find more of Kelly: Insta | Website | FB | Dream Catcher BooK

Dream Catcher Community | Rescue Freedom International

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Episode 214: Rachel Held Evans, 1981-2019

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On Episode 213 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi re-release an episode that aired last summer with the late Rachel Held Evans. The two struggle to say goodbye to this thinker, writer, and modern-day prophet. Rachel was someone both women looked up to immensely and the sisters grieve at her passing. During this conversation, Tesi and Rachel talk about the faith, justice, and a Mama Bear's response to the world we live in. They specifically dive into Rachel's book, Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again, and wade through new answers to age-old questions like: How do you love your neighbor when you vehemently disagree with their beliefs? How do you overcome personal insecurities and be an advocate for truth and justice? What can we learn from the bible about satire, resistance, peace, and cultural disruption? Leslie and Tesi will spend the week mourning the loss of this sister and fellow Mama Bear. They hope listeners will continue to read Rachel’s books and blogs and be challenged to think about how faith and culture drive their perspective and how their response can bend toward justice, liberation, and love.

Also discussed on this episode:

  • The historical and modern-day challenge of struggling with a powerful and oppressive empire

  • New ways to find comfort in ancient texts

  • How can a collection of books be used for both oppression and love?

  • Reading the bible through a lens of liberation

  • The story of Esther (spoiler: this tale might sound familiar in its depiction of racism, narcissism, and the spoils of power)

  • How to overcome deep insecurities and speak your truth

  • How to be an ally and an advocate

  • How motherhood shapes faith

LINKS:

Support the GoFundMe Page for Rachel’s Family | Rachel’s obituary | Buy her books! (And then read the BIBLIOGRAPHY for more reading!) | This post is referenced in the podcast | Also mentioned in the podcast was this book, Womanist Midrash, by Wilda Gafney.

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Episode 202: Can A Mama Bear Get to the Good Place?

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On Episode 202 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, co-hosts Leslie and Tesi talk about their love of Kristen Bell, Maya Rudolph, and The Good Place. Without any spoilers, the two women discuss a quandary presented in Season 3. Can any of us really get to the good place? Are the systems in place keeping us from eternal peace? Is it even possible for a modern-day Mama Bear to be a truly “good” person whose actions reflect her heart? The two women have so many questions and they explore this idea with candor and curiosity. For good measure, the sister-co-hosts end the show with a few segments that listeners are sure to relate to.

Want to learn about Leslie’s Clothing Swap? Click here. | Check out this list of sustainable clothing sources. | Crude Skincare | Argrow’s House | Patagonia | Grund America

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Episode 195: Love & Kindness Center Stage with Candace Cameron Bure

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On Episode 195 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi sit down with real-life Hallmark movie star, 80s icon, and fierce mama bear, Cameron Candace Bure. The three women enjoy a joy-filled conversation about kindness, raising strong kids, faith, parenting, the importance of do-overs, working hard, and making room for holiday joy. Listeners will love this candid conversation with Candace and be inspired by her honest, down-to-earth approach to life and love!

Find more of Candace: Books | Instagram | FB | Twitter | Website

(Find Candace’s mom’s podcast here!)

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Episode 184: Ordinary Places with Shannan Martin

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On Episode 184 of the Mama Bear Dares podcast, Tesi and Leslie chat with Shannan Martin, a mom, writer, and advocate for those on the fringes. Shannan makes her third appearance on the podcast and she and the sisters discuss community, neighborliness, committing to relationships with those with whom you are connected by proximity, and being an everyday advocate in your corner of the world. Through their conversation, listeners are invited to reflect on the meaning of kindness, their social position in America, and the ways in which they interact with their community and the world around them.

ALSO DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

  • It’s impossible to fix systemic issues without knowing the people around us

  • If you make the world better for one person, you make the world better

  • We are all mothers

  • Life gets better when we become better neighbors

  • It is possible to be a good community member even when you’re an introvert

LOOKING FOR MORE? CHECK OUT THESE LINKS:

Shannan’s new book: The Ministry of Ordinary Places

Listen to Episode 106: When the Earth Shakes Underneath You with Shannan Martin

Listen Episode 131: The Proximity of Power with Shannan Martin

Shannan recommends this BOOK and this PODCAST

Find Shannan online:  Website Facebook | Instagram | Twitter

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Episode 183: Boys will NOT be boys

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On Episode 183 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Tesi and Leslie discuss rape culture, toxic masculinity, the Brett Kavanaugh appointment to the Supreme Court, and why they, as fierce Mama Bears, MUST act as cultural disruptors in this moment in time. In other words, they discuss why and how the dangerous old adage “boys will be boys” and everything it stands for must be stopped. The women lament the current state of our culture, but ultimately offer tangible tips on how to talk to the kids in your life about sex, consent, and responsibility, and raise up a new generation that honors the humanity of all.

Links for further study: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5

Recommended reading: Girls & Sex: Navigating the Complicated New Landscape by Peggy Orenstein

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Episode 182: Imperfect Courage with Jessica Honegger

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On Episode 182 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi sit down with Jessica Honegger, a woman who is using her fierce and fiery Mama Bear to bring fair wages and empowerment to women across the globe, and is preaching the gospel of sisterhood in her wake. Jessica stops by to discuss using our voice as women to lift up others, hustling hard for the life we want, and allowing ourselves to be burdened by big questions, like, how do I respond to the suffering in this world? The three women also discuss keeping assumptions generous and gratitude at the forefront both professionally and personally, and why it’s more important than ever to show up for your sisters. It’s a lively conversation that will inspire listeners to live bigger and braver!

Find Jessica online: web | insta | fb | twitter | Buy her book here!


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Episode 178: Survivor: A Mama Bear Look at Domestic Violence with Autumn Miles

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On Episode 178 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi sit down with the dynamic and inspiring Autumn Miles. Autumn is a speaker, radio host, author, advocate, and survivor of marital physical abuse. The women talk about the #MeToo movement, the role of community (and church) in unhealthy relationships and divorce, and how the world can step up in supporting women in the midst of abuse. Autumn courageously shares her personal story and hard-won wisdom, and gives listeners important information on how to spot domestic violence occurring in the lives of loved ones and how to get help if it's happening to you. Furthermore, the conversation covers the broader theme of recognizing your own belovedness ... something that belongs to each of us and is up to us to claim.

 

Click here to find out more about Autumn!


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Episode 176: Defining Your Super Power with Dr. Zoe Shaw

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On Episode 176 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi sit down with the dynamic, wise, and absolutely delightful Dr. Zoe Shaw. Dr. Shaw is a mom to five, a psychotherapist, an author, and a radio host who is full of inspiration, energy, and fantastic advice. The sisters relish in their conversation about defining our unique super power and channeling it for the good of the world, saying 'no' in order to define priorities, setting boundaries, parenting teens intentionally, and living our best lives. The Mama Bear spirit is alive in this episode! 

Find Dr. Zoe Shaw and her incredible resources on her website.

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Episode 174: The Changing Self is the Living Self with Rumaisa Rahman Khawaja

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On Episode 175, Tesi and Leslie sit down with Rumaisa Rahman Kahwaja and talk about her life's journey of learning and exploration. Rumaisa constant posture is love and compassion and the sisters love and appreciate the stories she shares about her journey to self acceptance and power. Rumaisa shares how she was mothered by a mother with mental illness, but has used that part of her story to become an phenomenal mother to her own daughter. Rumaisa grew up Muslim in Omaha, Nebraska, and shares how she shared that part of herself while living in New York and working in fashion during 9/11. Rumaisa embodies an incredible spirit and she shares her insight and wisdom on the podcast, inspiring listeners to constant growth, acceptance, and re-invention. Virginia Wolf fans will recognize Ru immediately. She's "a self that goes on changing is a self that goes on living."

Find more of Rumaisa here:

Follow her on FB and Insta | Check out her website HERE | Read THIS POST about growing up with a mother with mental illness

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Episode 172: The Fragility of Power with Rachel Held Evans

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On Episode 172 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Tesi sits down with the thinker, writer, and modern-day prophet Rachel Held Evans to talk about the faith, justice, and a Mama Bear's response to the world we live in. The two dive into Rachel's new book, Inspired: Slaying Giants, Walking on Water, and Loving the Bible Again, as they wade through a new answer to age-old questions like: How do you love your neighbor when you vehemently disagree with their beliefs? How do you overcome personal insecurities and be an advocate for truth and justice? What can we learn from the bible about satire, resistance, peace, and cultural disruption? Ultimately, the conversation challenges listeners to think about how faith and culture drives their perspective and how their response can bend toward justice, liberation, and love.

Also discussed on this episode:

  • The historical and modern-day challenge of struggling with a powerful and oppressive empire
  • New ways to find comfort in ancient texts
  • How can a collection of books be used for both oppression and love?
  • Reading the bible through a lens of liberation
  • The story of Esther (spoiler: this tale might sound familiar in its depiction of racism, narcissism, and the spoils of power)
  • How to overcome deep insecurities and speak your truth
  • How to be an ally and an advocate
  • How motherhood shapes faith

More from Rachel Held Evans:

Buy the book! (And then read her BIBLIOGRAPHY for more reading!) | Follow Rachel on Twitter & Facebook | Check out here website & blog...in particular, this post, which was referenced in the podcast | Also mentioned in the podcast was this book, Womanist Midrash, by Wilda Gafney.

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Episode 171: JOY as an Act of RESISTANCE

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On Episode 171, Leslie and Tesi discuss embracing and embodying JOY as an act of resistance. They discuss the long history of joy in the face of oppression and encourage listeners to take active steps toward eradicating any guilt associated with experiencing joy amid suffering. After discussing a bit of psychology in cultivating joy, they share personal mantras that encourage joy, and lean on the wisdom of those who have come before us, including Audre Lorde, who said "caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare." The conversation concludes with the sharing of simple joys and a dare to make space for JOY as a profound nod to resistance, justice, and peace.

LINKS: Meet our sister Kait by listening to her MBD podcast episodes here and here. Access the article referenced in the podcast here.

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Episode 169: Families Belong Together

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On Episode 169 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Tesi and Leslie knash teeth over the horror going on at the southwest border. With facts to back up their rage, the two women talk about the atrocity of migrant mothers and children being ripped apart at the border, about how the current administration has wrongfully used the bible to oppress, and how Mama Bears must refuse to sit back and watch it happen. The women remind listeners that without ethics, laws are just stories to tell to justify horror. They encourage Mama Bears throughout the country to do whatever is in their power to RESIST and offer tangible steps of how to do so.

RESOURCES/FURTHER READING:

Read about U.S. Representative Pramila Jayapal's experience meeting with detained migrant mothers here. | United Methodist Church statement on immigration and Jeff Sessions | The current dministration quotes of bible verses | Avoiding numbness | Reunification Plans (there are none) | Immigrant Experiences | Issues within "camps" | Separating Families is Who We Are | Audio | A little bit of administrative wiffle-waffle | More thoughts on what we can do | Judicial response | Face check

Mama Bear Recommended Places to Donate: Safe Passage Project | Raices Texas | KIND (Kids in Need of Defense)

Find a march in your area: MoveON

CALL YOUR CONGRESS MEN AND WOMEN:

Find your two senators and your state representative and their information here: Call Your Congress

Feel free to follow this script:

“Hello, my name is ________. I'm a constituent from (your state), zip code _____. I don't need a response. I strongly urge (your senator) to put a stop to family separation. I want to hear Senator (name) speak out against what’s happening to immigrant families and put a stop to the Trump administration’s new policy. I would like Senator (name) to add their name to the Keeping Families Together Act."

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Episode 162: Sex, God, & Politics with Kara Haug

On Episode 162 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, co-hosts Tesi and Leslie dig back into the archives for an interview with Kara Hoag, the founder of Grace Unbound, a resource for those seeking a comprehensive sexuality education that includes the integration of sexuality and theology and aims to wipe clean feelings of shame. The women acknowledge that God created sexual intimacy and celebrate the idea that the human body is beautiful and to be celebrated and enjoyed, and discuss the most effective ways to teach the next generation to engage in healthy and meaningful sexual activity. Through their playful and deeply honest conversation, the women discuss pleasure and the ways in which we can embrace our spiritual self and our sexual self in order to be the full, complete women we were created to be. 

Also discussed on this episode with Kara:

  • Understanding your own philosophy and experience of sex in order to help you parent your children as sexual beings
  • How has your history influenced your ideas, values, and preferences in terms of sex?
  • Jesus' ministry was physical. In what ways might Christians appreciate the physicality of their faith?
  • How does a fullness of life in terms of faith and sexuality propel us to kindness?
  • The healing power and prayerful energy of orgasm
  • How our feelings and cultural narrative of sex infiltrates our politics
  • The importance of teaching intimacy in our homes
  • The hope and education involved in teaching our children to experience safe, intimate relationships
  • Marriage and sex in American culture

Learn more about Kara and her ministry, and access all of the great resources she has to offer on her website, Grace Unbound.

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Episode 161: We're Going to Africa & Aren't Going to Save Anyone

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The Mama Bears are going on an adventure! On Episode 161 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi unpack their upcoming travels to the East African nations of Tanzania and Ethiopia. They devote this Mama Bear Mini to explaining how this two-week trip happened, what they're planning to do while in East Africa, and what they hope to accomplish while adventuring. In true Mama Bear form, they also take on the white savior complex, white supremacy, why we need to be very thoughtful when engaging in international aid, what they believed is a flawed view of volunteerism, and the dangers of short-term missions. The episode is filled with big questions ... and a lot of excitement.

Listen to the Mama Bear Dares episodes mentioned in the podcast:

Episode 143: Nothing of Value Separates Us with Tara Livesay

Episode 138: Exhausted & Energized, A Water Party Re-cap

Learn more about Empower Tanzania HERE.

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Episode 158: Remaining Fierce While Facing a Storm with Alli Worthington

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Alli Worthington is an entrepreneur and author who speaks about knowing yourself and trusting a fierce faith. Like many of us, she balances her family (five sons and a husband), her work, and her social obligations. Unlike many of us, she and her family faced a difficult health crisis that left her in a sea of fear, worry, and anxiety. When this onsalught of fear caught her off guard and threatened to overtake, she chose to fight back. Now, Alli wants to help others take steps to combat worry and anxiety. Leslie, Tesi, and Alli talk about what this looks like for women today in a candid conversation about expectations, anxiety, and how we view the world.

Learn more about Alli HERE and buy her book HERE!

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Episode 141: Loud, Bold, & Joyful with Jamie Bruesehoff

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On Episode 141 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Tesi and Leslie sit down with Jamie Bruesehoff, a fierce Mama Bear ally and advocate of transgender people. Jamie shares her beautiful story of raising three children, the oldest of whom is a strong and precocious transgirl. She is unabashedly honest about her journey and her advocacy and graciously educates listeners on how to be supportive to the marginalized throughout the globe. The conversation tackles many aspects of being transgender in the United States and is tender, honest, and full of hope. Tesi and Leslie hang on Jamie's every last word as she generously unpacks what it's like to mother a transgender child, explores the ways in which we all might struggle and thrive when our expectations are not met, talks about current state and national laws protecting those in the LGBTQIA community, and opens up about her Christian response our country's much-obsessed over social issues.

Also discussed on this episode:

  • Tempering our maternal expectations and letting our children lead the way
  • Bringing Mama Bear to life and turning her rage to action
  • Definition of gender and sexuality
  • Legal protection for transgender people in the United States
  • Degrees of privilege among the marginalized
  • Humility and grace in advocacy

Love Jamie and want more? Here's where you'll find her:

Website | Twitter | Insta | Facebook

HELPFUL LINKS FROM JAMIE:

BOOKS

Pictures Books:
Red: A Crayon's Story By Michael Hall
I am Jazz by Jessica Herthel and Jazz Jennings
It's Okay to Sparkle by Avery Jackson
When Kayla Was Kyle by Amy Fabrikant
Annie's Plaid Shirt by Stacy B. Davids

Middle Grades Fiction:
George by Alex Gino
Gracefully Grayson by Ami Polonsky
The Other Boy by M. Hennessey

Young Adult:
Magnus Chase and the Gods Of Asgard by Rick Riordan
Being Jazz: by Jazz Jennings
Beyond Magenta: Transgender Teens Speak Out by Susan Kuklin
Some Assembly Required: The Not So Secret Life of a Transgender Teen by: Arin Andrews

Adults:
Raising My Rainbow: Adventures in Raising a Fabulous, Gender Creative Son by Lori Duron
Raising Ryland: Our Journey of Parenting a Transgender Child with No Strings Attached by Hillary Whittington
The Gender Creative Child by Diane Ehrensaft
The Conscious Parent's Guide to Gender Identity: A Mindful Approach to Embracing Your Child's Authentic Self by Darlene Tando
The Transgender Child or The Transgender Teen by Stephanie Brill

ORGANIZATIONS

National Center for Transgender Equality is for mama bears interested in staying in the loop advocacy-wise. Their website and social media is a great place to stay connected. They have state by state information available on their website as well. https://transequality.org/

Also, for specifically school related stuff, GLSEN is an incredible resource. They have local chapters and the national organization. They put out really helpful documents and lesson plans for educators, parents, and beyond. www.glsen.org

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Episode 132: Talking Kids through Tragedy (Again)

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On Episode 132 of the Mama Bear Dares Podcast, Leslie and Tesi find themselves once again trying to find the language to respond to the events of the world as mothers tasked with helping their children navigate life in America in 2017. The two women offer their experiences in talking to their children ranging in age from young elementary to tweenager to teens. They discuss strategies that will help parents engage their children during anxious times such as the one Americans find themselves in currently after the mass shooting in Las Vegas, after multiple natural disasters, and after Charlottesville. Finally, the women look for HOPE in the midst of heartache and explore one way to keep it alive.


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Episode 131: The Power of Proximity with Shannan Martin

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On Episode 131 of the Mama Bear Dares podcast, Tesi grabs the mic and sits down with Shannan Martin, a mom, writer, and advocate for those on the fringes. Shannan makes her second appearance on the podcast and she and Tesi continue their conversation about Shannan's her book Falling Free: Rescued From the Life I Always Wanted through a discussion of community, neighborliness, committing to relationships with those to whom you are connected by proximity, and being an advocate for the voiceless when opportunities arise. Through their conversation, Shannan and Tesi will inspire listeners to reflect on the meaning of kindness, their social position in America, and the ways in which they interact with their community and the world around them.

ALSO DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

  • What does it mean to be a neighbor? What do we gain by cultivating community?
  • The value of entering into relationships...even when it's awkward
  • The constant struggle and gift of listening to the voice of God in our lives
  • Moving to a new neighborhood that is outside the bubble you've always belonged in
  • What is hospitality? What does it look like? What does it taste like?

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